Who is to be blamed

When we blame anything or anybody
we are deceiving ourselves.

For nobody is responsible for our state.
Only I am

When I take complete responsibility of what I am
and of what happens to me
then something can be done
then no one needs to be blamed,.

If my state changes due to somebody's insult
now I shall change the direction,
I shall no more blame
but look inside,
to find out, what in me still remains to be accepted and loved.
The hidden blocks, wounds, or knots within.